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The other side of triple talaq: When Muslim women sleep with strangers to save their marriage

Discussion in 'National Politics' started by Hellfire, Apr 26, 2017.

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  1. Hellfire

    Hellfire Devil's Advocate THINKER

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    Reports show that there are online services to help Muslim women enter halala marriages to get back together with husbands who divorced them.

    IndiaToday.in | Written by Shreya Biswas
    New Delhi, April 5, 2017 | UPDATED 18:17 IST

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    As the debate over the law banning triple talaq in India worsens, another Muslim practice is slowly gaining attention in the media - Nikah Halala.

    Nikah Halala is a practice as per the Sharia law that prohibits a divorced couple from remarrying unless the former wife has married a different man, consummates the marriage, and then divorces him.

    A recent BBC investigation showed that there are online services that provide partners willing to get into halala marriages in exchange of lump a hefty sum.


    Left distraught by triple talaq, women desperate to get back with their former husbands often opt for these services even at the cost of thousands of pounds.

    However, halala marriages don't always go as planned.

    Reports show that in some cases, women opting halala marriages are financially exploited, blackmailed, and even sexually abused.

    During the investigation, an undercover BBC reporter interacted with a man advertising halala services on Facebook. The man told the reporter, who was posing as a divorced Muslim woman, that he would marry her and have sex with her to "complete" the halala marriage, all in exchange of 2,500 pounds. After she pays him, he would divorce her.

    When confronted later, the man denied the allegations claiming that it was all a part of a social experiment.

    MAJORITY OF MUSLIMS OPPOSE HALALA

    While Nikah Halala is accepted by a minority group of Muslims, it is rejected and strongly opposed by the majority.

    According to the BBC report, the Islamic Sharia Council in East London "strongly condemns halala marriages".

    "This is a sham marriage, it is about making money and abusing vulnerable people," the report quotes Khola Hasan from the organisation. "It's haram, it's forbidden. There's no stronger word I can use. There are other options, like getting help or counselling. We would not allow anyone to go through with that. You do not need halala, no matter what."

    The report also quotes a divorced Muslim woman who said that she knows of girls who went ahead with such hahala marriages and ended up being "used for months".

    "They went to the mosque, there was apparently a designated room where they did this stuff and the imam or whoever offers these services, slept with her and then allowed other men to sleep with her too," said the woman.

    WHAT DRIVES WOMEN TO THIS EXTENT?

    Desperation.

    "Unless you're in that situation where you're divorced and feeling the pain I felt, no one's going to understand the desperation some women feel," the report quotes a divorced Muslim woman.

    As a matter of fact, Nikah Halala is not a nonexistent practice in India.


    http://indiatoday.intoday.in/story/...ep-with-strangers-save-marriage/1/921183.html
     
  2. surya kiran

    surya kiran 2nd Lieutant FULL MEMBER

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    Some things are disgusting. And they should be called out for it. Being politically correct is a crime in these cases.
     
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    This is simply absurd and inhuman practice.
     
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  4. layman

    layman Aurignacian STAR MEMBER

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    Religious encroachment of human lives should be for the betterment of ownself not to be a hurdle for well being of oneself and others.

    It is time for UCC no more seperate codes for everyone based on faith or or a skewed religions practices.
     
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    Meena Kumari Bollywood Actress lost his life because of Halala.

    Most of the Mullah's do Halala 'Halal Rape'. That's why they don't want to undo Triple Talaq.
     
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    nair Die hard Romeo IDF NewBie

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    Why do they want to remarry in first place.... I had a neighbour who divorced and not the couple got married and again divorced.... later decided to remarry and living happily till now....

    But this remarriage clause is only for women?
     
  7. Golden_Rule

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    This is all f***ed up stuff ..... literally ..... the direction in which that guy's d**k swung 1400 years ago, he invented a new way to keep the previously fooled slaves happy and adopt a new one, till the count reached 14, which is only an officially recorded count, the harem is unaccounted for; he struck off the first digit and limited up to 4 for his chelas ... and this is what we see its modern avatar spread across the world like cancer in the form of online rip-offs
     
  8. Butter Chicken

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    And people are saying Modi is doing politics.This is clear Human Rights issue
     
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    For any respectful women the feeling could be like being a prostitute. And how is this service different from gigolo services only thing is here husband willingly allows her divorced wife to hire a gigolo ( which here could be a Maulana, quazi or even a friend or relative) to sleep with her. Disgusting ritual from stone age religion?????:hitwall::hitwall:
     
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    In fact this halala practice was introduced to prevent divorce but the point is this is hugely biased and is against basic human rights of woman and the women are often exploited.2 people who marry can always differ and must get divorce lawfully not in closed door room or over phone
     
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    Yes. This is only for Females.:hmm:

    Goat Sleeping with Goat is Haram. Joking :LMAO:
     
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    Search on youtube for Operation Halala sting operation done by India Tv on mullahs doing Nikah Halala offering themselves to marry divorced women for 1 lakh rupees and promising to divorce them after spending a night with the woman,so she could get remarried to her old husband.

    This woman wants to become a Hindu and marry Hindu men as she was fed up of Triple talaq,later she was threatened and coerced into giving a apology.
     
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    covering up male desperation and sick mentality in the name of religion. the worst part about the abrahamic religions is you cannot just change them according to how the world has evolved.. because they do not believe in evolution.
    we all know dharmendra (the actor) changed his religion to Islam so he can marry more than one person. I mean.. his reason to change religion was to utilize the provision of polygamy in the religion.
    I guess its time we could invent religions that permit wilful hatred of other religions and when someone stops you - claim that they are narrow minded and <religion>-phobic. what a headache!
     
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  14. Golden_Rule

    Golden_Rule Lieutenant FULL MEMBER

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    This cant be a religion - where a woman is treated as nothing more than a material possession to be used in different ways of your liking. It is the biggest wonder of the world where the sickness of one idiot is transferred to over a billion people today. Disgusting indeed.

    Charity begins at home. So does Terrorism. She must be threatened with honor killing by her own people - what more is needed to prove the religion of "piece" - where they terrorize people to cut them into pieces
     
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    Levina Colonel on stilettos SENIOR MEMBER

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    First it was the instant talaq aka triple talaq and now this, examples of toxic masculinity and sexual exploitation. I wonder if its really the 21st century for women have to still beg for equal rights.
    I might be a hindu but i can speak from a woman's point of view that this temporary marriage arrangement which ppl site as deterrents for divorces are absolutely inhumane. I would hate to imagine any woman subject herself to this only to get back to a man she loves. No religion would ask its followers to practice something that relegates the position of a woman in the society unless the religious texts are misinterpreted.
    This being unconstitutional is no rocket science, since our constitution states " any state shall not deny to any person equality before the law or the equal protection of laws within the territory of India". Everyone is allowed to follow their religion according to the Indian Constitution as long as it does not break any law.




    Now that's interesting. Tell me the whole story.
     
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